

These two quotes completely define my childhood. My sisters and I were constantly running around together on our country farm, hiding in the woods, riding our bikes on the back dirt roads, exploring in the creek, and jumping in our pool. Because we lived in the country and most of our friends lived farther way in town, we had to depend on each other, and our imaginations, for fun. Being the sister who came up with the best idea of what to do that day (especially during the summer) was a BIG thing between us, although we usually didn’t mind who it was who decided what we did. One day we were mad scientists “creating life” in our old horse barn, or another day we were Nuns washing our clothes and singing in the creek (I blame the movie Sister Act for this… lol, it had just come out on VHS and been a current favorite of ours) or evil villains mixing up “potions” with the spices we secretly pilfered from our mom’s cabinet and flowers/seeds we found in the backyard or across the street, but every day was a new adventure for us and we NEVER had a problem coming up with something, which is a sad change from most of today’s children and youth who spend most of their times indoors on computer or video screens.
Essential Play Items
As I mentioned earlier, one of my favorite play pastimes was playing in the creek with my sisters. We would look and find special rocks, make and throw mud pies at each other, SPLASH through “Crayfish County” to make sure our toes didn’t get bitten, and just create our own type of fun down there for hours on end. If we weren’t down there, we were riding our bikes as far and as fast as we could up and down hills! When we couldn’t be outside, I loved painting and anything art-related as for the longest time all I wanted to be was an artist. I’d name my projects like “a real” artists and display them around the house for literally ANYONE who wanted to see them 😛
Reading together any becoming the characters was another favorite play pastime for my sisters and myself, and the best way to do this was by dressing up! One thing that’s different from kids today is that we never had any pre-bought costumes to play in; everything came from our imagination, and usually “hand me downs” from my aunts or uncles who donated to our dress up antics. We had old bridesmaid dresses, hats, gloves, clip on ties, shirts and suit coats, ect, and occasionally some Halloween costume accessories. My mom and aunt loved making our own costumes every year so we didn’t even have pre-made Halloween dress up costumes, but I think that’s what made our play acting so much more authentic and fun.
Play Changes
Two of the biggest changes in play that differ from my childhood is one, the change of today’s environment (everyone is bad and kids can’t play alone anymore) and two, everything is pre-made or laid out for children. Most kids are more attracted to playing “screen” games on computers, TVs, or video screens and don’t choose the physical types of play as much anymore, unless it is an actual planned sports team. Children don’t seem to have any imagination anymore, or know where to begin on how to come up with an idea or game by themselves because they are so used to having a plan or directions mapped out for them already, which I think is so sad. Part of the fun of games with my sisters was the inventing part; how to play, the rules to follow, what to wear sometimes or how long to play it, ect. We didn’t care if it was win or lose…. everything now a days is “everyone must win” or get a prize and kids get SO upset when they don’t win anymore and part of that is the emphasis of parents or adults pushing that “you have to be the best” attitude on the kids, where when I was younger, everything was played for FUN and NOT to win. If I liked it, I played it. Was I the best? Usually not, but when everyone had the same mindset, no one minded.
Another thing that has sadly changed is the environment. You can’t leave your children out to play without being there with fear of someone taking them or something else awful. Unfortunately, that can be a big part of why more and more kids stay inside and aren’t outside because of that fear. Everyone was everyone’s friend and everyone knew everyone, even way out in the country where I grew up, but now, most people can’t even name their neighbors.
I am super glad I grew up in the late 80s and early 90s when we didn’t have to worry about that and I wasn’t in front of a screen. Although there can be some positives to screen times and games (educational purposes or games are useful for learning purposes) I’d still rather always be outside with my niece and nephews instead of inside watching TV or playing internet or video games where there is less interaction and physical play. I try to push for that fun, creative play in my classroom when I can and imaginative interaction between the kids and I hope they remember that about me when they look back at their prek years.








